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The Book

She wrote the book.
Literally.

Before the masterclasses, the masterminds, the C-suite clients — there was the book that started it all. Published by Simon & Schuster, The Big Sister's Guide to the World of Work put into writing what Jocelyn had spent years learning the hard way: the rules that determine who gets ahead are never the ones anyone teaches you.

Practical tips for managing workplace politics, hidden agendas, and common communication challenges — applicable and realistic.

— Verified Reader, Goodreads
90,000
Hours the average person spends at work
Simon & Schuster
Publisher
University
Used in Jocelyn's curriculum
US & Int'l
Published worldwide
Required Reading
For students & executives
What people are saying

"Loved this book and recommend it often. Not a heavy read, but one that will teach new tricks."

Verified Reader
Goodreads

"Definitely one of those books you earmark and highlight all over the place — recommended by a Davidson graduate whose boss gave it to her."

Verified Reader
Goodreads

"This is the ultimate mentor for women — part therapist, part manual. Required reading for any woman who wants to get ahead."

Bonnie Fuller
EVP & Chief Editorial Director, American Media

"Funny, witty, and so truthful! Let these big sisters mentor you."

Laura Berman Fortgang
Author, Now What? 90 Days to a New Life Direction

"You'll find many morsels of workplace wisdom on each and every page of this book."

Lois P. Frankel, Ph.D.
Author, Nice Girls Don't Get the Corner Office

"Describes the world as it is, not as we'd like it to be. Refreshingly honest — the best book in its category."

HeadButler
Press Review
What the book covers

The rules they never
taught you in school.

Office Politics How power actually moves, and how to navigate it without losing yourself.
Communication How to speak so you're heard — in meetings, to management, in writing.
Performance & Visibility How your work is actually judged, and how to make the right people see it.
Relationships & Trust Building the professional relationships that open doors and protect your reputation.
Decision-Making How leaders decide — and how to position yourself as someone worth deciding with.
Career Navigation Moving forward with intention — not just hoping the next opportunity appears.
Why it still resonates

The unwritten rules
don't change.

You can earn every credential, ace every interview, and still walk into your first job — or your twentieth — completely unprepared for how work actually works.

Who gets credit and who gets passed over. How power moves through a room. Why some people get heard and others don't. These aren't soft skills. They are the skills.

This book was written because no one was being honest about them. Two decades later, nothing has changed — except that the women reading it now are handing it to the women they mentor.

This book is for you if
you're ready to stop guessing.

01
Just starting out
You want the honest orientation no employer gives you — the one that explains how the game is actually played before you've made the costly mistakes.
02
Mid-career and frustrated
You're working hard, doing everything right — and still watching others get ahead. This book explains why, and what to do about it.
03
Leading or mentoring women
An essential resource for managers, mentors, and sponsors who want to give the women on their teams a real advantage — not platitudes.
About
Jocelyn
Greenky

Jocelyn Greenky is the founder of Sider Road, where she works with CEOs, family businesses, and executive teams on leadership, influence, and the dynamics that actually determine organizational outcomes.

Before Sider Road, she rose through the ranks of New York media, learning firsthand what the rulebook never says. That experience became the foundation for this book — and for the consulting, masterminds, and masterclasses she has built since.

The book was her first answer to the question she kept hearing: "Why didn't anyone tell me this sooner?" The rest of Sider Road's work is the next chapter of that answer.

Ready to go
beyond the book?

Jocelyn works directly with leaders and organizations through masterminds, masterclasses, and advisory engagements.

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